I've had a lot of fun lately, writing about my passion: the guitar. In particular, in a recent newsletter I discussed the challenges of being taught to properly after playing my way (and I don't mean the song) for 35 years.
People have asked me why I bothered (getting lessons that is. They knew why I'd written the article). It comes down to a few things that had been niggling away at me. First, I knew I could be better, and it annoyed me that I wasn't. Second, teaching myself wasn't working - I didn't have an incentive or a structure, there was no accountability. And third, I suspected my technique was flawed, but I didn't know how.
So I got myself a teacher, one Danny McCrum. He's a really good guitarist, but he's an even better teacher. Mercilessly he points out the flaws in my technique that I'm not even aware of. I have a way of playing A that is somewhat unique. He said to me "what's that chord? I don't recognise it." I explained it was my version of A, to which he gleefully said "ah, it's a bullshit chord!".
He sets difficult exercises for me to learn, but he also fills in the basics that I haven't taught myself - for example, timing properly as opposed to highly trained guesswork.
He has ridiculously high expectations of me - he fully expects me to become a human metronome, and I'm still struggling with counting to 4. He won't show me how to play a piece, because playing by imitation is my strength and reading is my weakness, and if I don't work it out for myself I'll never learn to do it properly.
Now that's a coach.
2 September 2010

